Started day with a burp. Ya, woke up late today. Nothing special though. tonight went to another girlfriend relatives dinner. Quite boring as there is no youngster on my table. Drink a bit of wine and taste some of the food there. today had the thinking of my marriage day, i dunno, girlfriend is giving pressure of if i will to marry her it should be 风风光光。
Think about marriage, a event of to individual become one family. Should it shout out laud to the world? When i was young, i always wanted a simple and easy wedding. either a vacation wedding or just sign the paper and that it. even my girlfriend mum said they want things to be done traditionally, like having dinner and having the morning ceremony. Well, i dunno, it sound so so so troublesome and waste of money and energy for it. My parent always give us(my sis and bro) a open minded thought. We can do what ever we want with our own marriage. like my sis, she just want our family itself to attend her wedding no relative and even no friends. So those traditional restrain never happened in my family. free policies.
all of my siblings choose their own high school, college and career. So when people put pressure on me doing things that i don't like, is quite disturbing. So for love sack, i will have to do it? Let see then.
Talking about free policies. Ya, my sis studying evaluator, me studying mass com, my 1st bro studying hospitality and catering and my younger brother studying medical engineering. all of us are very extreme in the way we choosing thing. there is no common thing in our career choice. This is what i like most. Is freedom. No constrain, nothing like i had to follow whose foot step or what, nothing like i need to take over my dad business or what. So is a freedom of expression as well. :) I will do this to my kids if i have one. Is a good teaching and let them be what ever they want, guide them as they go along the path they choose.
As the days end, i say goodnight:)
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